How to Impress a Girl on a Date?

Experienced ladies’ men know how to impress a girl and interest her and usually rely on their charisma and good eloquence. But what to do for those who aren’t so confident in themselves and ask a girl out for the first time? Or have a negative experience associated with the refusals of girls, but don’t know what he did wrong? 

1. Appearance

Neatness, tidiness, and grooming — this is what girls pay attention to when meeting a man. The ideal appearance and expensive outfit are not so striking as unclean shoes and dirt under the nails.

2. Choosing a Place for a Rendezvous

When asking a girl out, you have to make sure that the chosen place is comfortable for both, and the pastime is interesting. Too noisy places leave little room for communication. Before planning a date, you should find out about the girl’s preferences:

• regarding a café, you have to find out if she smokes, and if not, make sure that the chosen establishment has a non-smoking room;
• if you have an idea for active rest, you have to find out if the girl is afraid of heights/horses/speed, etc., and also warn her in advance so that she can dress appropriately, choose comfortable shoes;
• when planning a trip to the cinema, theater, or exhibition, find out what genres of art she prefers;
• the walking route must be carefully thought out so that the girl isn’t tired;
• try to create a romantic atmosphere or at least get closer to it (going to a pub or football match is unlikely to win the heart of the chosen one).

3. Gallantry and Good Manners

Any woman, even the strongest and most independent, is pleased to feel like a lady next to a caring man. It’s hard to resist a gentleman with exquisite manners and not fall in love. It’s clear that not every guy is fluent in etiquette and can distinguish a fish fork from a fondue one, but such elementary things as opening the door and letting the girl go ahead, giving her a hand when leaving the transport, paying the bill at a restaurant — should be a matter of course for every man. And if he still comes on a date with flowers, then the chances of conquering the chosen one increase significantly.

4. Ability to Maintain a Conversation, a Sense of Humor

One of the most effective ways to impress a girl is to be an interesting conversationalist. The first date is a somewhat stressful event for both parties, associated with anxiety, insecurity, inner fears, and this can provoke the emergence of awkward silence during communication. A man has to be prepared to fill these pauses with a good joke, a compliment, or suggest a new topic for discussion.